Excerpts on INFIDELITY vs. MARRIAGE (MONOGAMY): A Recapitulation

Posted on November 20, 2017 Updated on November 20, 2017

WHEN WE REALIZE INJURY IS ALWAYS RELEVANT….

SHARING AN IEPM SHORT: RESPONSE TO SOME OPEN ENDED QUESTIONS ON INFIDELITY VS. MARRIAGE (MONOGAMY)
FEBRUARY 9, 2014 IEPM | STC-TS GROUP
Infidelity vs. Matrimony

Thinking WOW and I am somewhat amused at the shenanigans at play.

NOT ALL SINGLE WOMEN ARE DOG CATCHERS so if you have to keep your man on a leash…signs are he was a dog before you adopted his ___. Figuratively speaking. ~the Messenger

• Stop blaming others for your choices.
• If the relationship is in question, then only she and he have the answers.
• LOVE it…stretch your faith, communicate better, forgive & move ahead or LEAVE it…if that means trading that ring in for a collar then be like Ray Charles & make it do what it do.

One thing I know is that neither man nor woman can make another grown person do what he or she wants or does not want to do in a relationship (unless of course, it is rape or violent manipulation).

It is absolute, what God joins nothing can separate it. On the strength of that statement alone; perhaps, instead of guessing & checking other people about the fidelity of a union, one should check the authority over the relationship.

There are good honest men out there who love nothing more than to love their women as God intended with the added favor.

**A marriage fitly joined together is visible via the FAVOR on that union**

Marriage,Monogamy & Infidelity: What of it?
What is the favor?

1. There are no wandering eyes, thoughts, or behaviors, against the tri-cord union because GOD is the Head of it, and Man (husband) is the head of the woman (submissive to her husband in ALL things-wife).
2. The husband reverences his gift from GOD just like Jesus loves us because he would lay down his life for her and would do nothing to cause her harm and wishes that she is prosperous and healthy above all else.

• The husband provides
• The husband comforts
• The husband never leaves nor forsakes his wife
• The husband is supportive
• The wife is eager to support, motivate, encourage, and help her husband to maintain his platform of fidelity; she has an eagerness to comply with his wants, needs and desires because she knows he is governed by the FATHER, and would do nothing to disgrace, disregard, or disrespect her.
• More importantly, the two receive the abundance of fruits from the TRUE VINE.
• Bills are paid in timely fashion
• Vacations are possible
• Health is fabulous
• Youthfulness is probable

All because $ is available due to good housekeeping, accounting, management and support via a teamwork. By this I simply mean he or she does not exploit their fruits of labor in some frivolous habit like another male or female accommodating lack within the relationship because they are so in sync, the communication is the adhesive that keeps the tri-cord bonded. They don’t really have a need to go outside of the relationship for attention, sexual gratification, conversation, compliments, or other support because everything they need as long as they keep GOD as the HEADSHIP, it is provided.

There are women out there who know how to be submissive to the one God allows in finding that “good thing” with her.

Trouble is so many people are together based on conditions, stipulations, or merit and as soon as augmentations arise to those conditions, you damage the merit based on the stipulations.

I think it is so funny that people who claim to be believers cannot fathom the stock of a good and/ or perfect union. It is an understanding that GOD knew us before we knew ourselves and he knew there would be good, bad, or worse times, influences or situations, health & finances, ergo the matrimonial vows.

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Marriage,Monogamy & Infidelity: What of it? A Simpler View

Likewise, he knew that he would show favor towards a couple to love one another under one headship, authority or covenant, HIM. (i.e. man head of woman, woman submissive to man as long as he is submissive to God and loving her genuinely, spiritually, undeserving and faithfully, yet the two of them as one (twain) under the divine authority of God.

A PAPER MARRIAGE DECREE is synthetic and does not hold a relationship together. The true bond of a marriage has to be LOVE ~ GOD. The only value a paper marriage decree holds is legalities associated with monetary value on the happenstance it fails.

A RING is an idol of worship in a sense because it is a graven image, which is a gift from man to woman and not directly from God.

Just think about it for a moment….

SYMBOLISM:

A ring can be lost, stolen, bought, sold, traded, jaded or faded and even hated.

Yet the actual halo (ring) is the circle of love, which cannot be broken.

• The outer layer of that circle is the protective covering of God and
• The inner layers consist of the marriage including family and everything effective (union –i.e. what GOD joined).

The effects become unlimited if the protective outer layer is present. If there is no outer layer of Divine protection, per se the proverbial paper decree and symbolic ring exchange, there is every probability and/or availability for things (negative) to happen such as infidelity.

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I did a few interviews with men and women about this very subject and it is  NO LONGER available in eBook form.  A follow up to this book is already in the making as well so stay tuned.

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Interviews with divorcees, celibate male & female, plus some engaged, married and single persons.