Marital Issues
ORDER in the House
Talking with the Holy Comforter on Family Structure today…ORDER in the House
Obedience Repentance & Discipline Earns Remission
It is again confirmed that a house is only as good as its foundation. That means both houses natural & supernatural must be under the submission and commission of the Most High (united) or become in a fallen state and/or falling via separation/divorce from one’s first love.~the Messenger“A House divided Against itself cannot stand”Mark 3:25
Is my House in Order? What is the divine order for a house? and does it apply to single men and women as well? Yes. It does. 
Rule 1. The Divine Order…YES In that order
God ⇔ Head of Household ⇔ Christ ⇔ Head of Man Man ⇔ Head of Woman
1 Corinthians 7:8-34 & 11:1-12 | Proverbs 16:4-9; 19:21 & 30-31 | Isaiah 41:10; 45:6-7 & 55:8-11 | Psalm 22:28 & 115:3 | Job 12:10 | Ephesians 1:11
“keep the ordinances…all things of God”
1 Corinthians 11
Do the children have rule in the house? Only under the divine order… (Godhead Authority)
They are to hear the instructions given and follow through in carrying them out.
- Rule 2. Children follow the instructions of mother & father
Train up a child in the way he should go: and when he is old, he will not depart from it.Proverbs 22:6
1 Timothy 3:4-6 | Colossians 3:20 | Ephesians 6:1
Children, obey your parents in the Lord: for this is right.Ephesians 6:1
Do others like friends/family, co-workers/employers, or enemies, etc. have rule in the house? No. 
Rule 3. Covetousness via meddling as a busybody is out of divine order
1 Timothy 5:13 | 2 Thessalonians 3:6-11 | 1 Thessalonians 4:11 |1 Peter 4:15 | Proverbs 20:3 | Leviticus 19:16 | Proverbs 24:2 | Titus 2:3
What do I do with the disorder?
Rule 4. Anything outside of rules 1-2 are in direct violation or defiance. Violators should be immediately evicted to keep the peace & divine order in one’s House (Temple of God).
“Thou shalt not COVET any thing that is thy neighbor’s”
God wants us to involve ourselves with others via love. This means we can edify one another via fellowship; prayer and assistance. Sometimes we are allowed to offer our opinions, but realizing it is just that and not a rule of thumb. The marriage is sacred. Nothing that God joins together can be annulled by anyone else. People who butt their noses into other people’s affairs, heap up undue and ungodly strife’s, confusion, derision and/or division. Philippians 2:10-11
Why is this? 
Well, 1 Timothy 3:4-6, tells us that if a man [and/or husbandman, emphasis added] doesn’t know how to rule his own house, he may via pride become subject to condemnation of the devil.
That man should…
- Govern well his relationship with God via Christ, treat his wife with the same everlasting love of Christ (willing to lay down his life for her). This is where he finds favor from God. All decisions should be unified and on one accord with both husband and wife concerning the home structure.
- He should be stern in parenting, making sure his children know the truth about the snares or dangers in the world, how to behave themselves with integrity even absent their parents presence. In the physical home, he is or rather should be the representation or example of God via Christ.
- He should understand that he and his wife [No More Twain] are ONE in God via Christ, and nobody comes in between that…No exceptions.
How so? 
Things become chaotic or in disarray. Anger, doubt and distrust creeps in, with disobedience following. Soon the man/husband becomes disgruntled as the woman/wife forgets to be submissive to God [or if unmarried; her husbandry under the authority of Christ], in all things; forget, avoid and/or omit prayer because he/she doesn’t have time to pray [commune with God] via distraction from either lust, pride and dealing with intruder’s stuff [wear & tear of emotions, finances, opinions, advice, etc].
Whose mind is stayed on the LORD, is in perfect peace kept…
Para, Isaiah 26:3
Oftentimes, even their children rebel via sought attention or for other reasons falling by the wayside (i.e. getting into mischief). Families fall apart because they are continually having to rebuild and/or renovate the edifice with the shaky foundation.
“I will build my house (church/body) upon this rock & the gates of hell shall not prevail against it”Para Matthew 16:17-18
It’s similar to the 40 years, in which the children of Israel wandered in the wilderness, hungry, scared and distrusting because of their disobedience. It is only until they obey, will the promises of a land flowing with milk and honey be given them. Joshua 5:6 / Ezekiel 20:21. God does not reward us in wrong-doing and neither shall we as parents reward our children. Nor as children of the Most High, are we to disregard the divine order of our body temple [our earthen vessel] and/or our physical homes. This means we cannot allow others to disrupt the foundation or rock upon which we have built our house, to interfere, impose, intrude nor entice us towards sin. 
How do I command this authority in my house? 
That at the name of Jesus every knee should bow, of things in heaven, and things in earth, and things under the earth; And that every tongue should confess that Jesus Christ is Lord, to the glory of God the Father.
Simply, plea the blood and the name written above all names in and under earth over those things and/or people obstructing via intrusive (covetousness) behaviors
Joshua 24:14-15
Man shall live by every word of Yah…
Deuteronomy 8:3 ♦ Matthew 4:4 ♦ Luke 4:4
In the Word Study 
2 Corinthians 1:3-8 & 5:11 | Titus 2:3-6 | Exodus 20:17 | 1 Timothy 3:4-6 | Hebrews 9:27 & 13:17-24 | Colossians 3:19-21 | Ephesians 6:1-4 | Ezekiel 3:17; 11:14 & 28:2 | Joshua 5:6 & 24:14-15 | Deuteronomy 8:3; 12:28; 30:2 & 32:46 | Psalm 18:19; 23:1-6; 34:18; 38 ; 82:4-7; 91:1-16; 103:17-18 & 127:3-5 | Matthew 4:4; 5:16; 16:17-19 & 18:1-3 | Luke 4:4 | Acts 20:28 | Philippians 2:10-11 & 4:6-7 | Mark 3:25-27 | Isaiah 62:6 | 1 Corinthians 14:33 & 16:16 | 1 Thessalonians 5:12 | Genesis 2:20-23 | Numbers 6:24-26; | Revelation 21:1-4 | Galatians 3:26 | John 10:34 | 1 Peter 3:18 & 4:12-19 | 1 Thessalonians 4:13-18 | Romans 8:18-22
